beginners guide for male masturbation

Hey, I just wanted to talk to you about male masturbation.​ I know it’s a pretty awkward topic to broach, so I’m glad you’re here to listen.​ Firstly, let me start off by saying, don’t be embarrassed – it’s totally natural and it’s nothing to be ashamed of!

Masturbation can be a safe and pleasurable way to explore your sexuality and boost your intimate self-confidence.​ And, as you’d expect, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach.​ Everyone is a little bit different, so what works for one person may not work for everyone.​ But this is the perfect place to start.​

Let’s begin then: Make sure that you’re in the right frame of mind.​ If you’re comfortable and relaxed, it will be easier to explore the sensations that come with solo playtime.​ If you’re feeling tensed, it may be tough to feel aroused.​ So putting yourself in the right frame of mind is key.​

Next up, don’t rush it.​ Take your time, and give yourself permission to explore.​ Everyone responds differently to touch, so take the time to explore different feelings.​ Spend some time on your external areas like your nipples, the areas around your genitals, and your inner thighs.​ This is a great way to build arousal and to get some practice in with different types of touch.​

Now, it’s time to explore a little more.​ Start with your genital area.​ Here, you can explore with your hands, as well as sex dolls toys if you’re feeling adventurous.​ Start rubbing circles around your penis head, and gradually increase the pressure as you work up to the point of pleasure.​ If it feels too intense, don’t worry – just dial back a bit until you find something that feels pleasurable.​

Then, as your arousal spikes, it’s time to crank it up even more.​ For some, this means smiling into your hand while you continue to rub circles around your penis head.​ If you need too, grab a pillow and scream into it as you thrust your hips while rubbing your shaft.​ It’s all about exploring, and discovering new ways to please yourself.​

Oh, and don’t forget lube! If your palm isn’t enough, grab some water-based lube to get the right amount of friction.​ It makes a huge difference when it comes to pleasure.​

And that’s it – an easy guide to solo playtime.​ Now, it’s important to try different things and to find out what works best for you.​ After all, don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone from time to time – it’s a great way to make your solo sessions even better.​

Alright, so now that you’re starting to feel more confident in solo playtime, let’s explore some more advanced tools that you can incorporate into your sessions.​ After all, there’s nothing wrong with taking your solo playtime to the next level!

One incredibly popular tool is a vibrator.​ Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes, and pressing them against your skin can take masturbation to whole new heights.​ You can use them to explore the sensitive areas around your genitals, or even your penis head.​ Start out slow and gradually increase the intensity to find that magical point of pleasure.​

Another extremely popular tool is lubrication.​ Lubrication can be used to enhance the experience and make it much more pleasurable.​ Water-based lubrication is perfect if you’re going to use sex toys, as it won’t damage the material.​ Plus, it’s incredibly easy to clean off afterwards.​ And it doesn’t hurt that it’ll make the sensations even more pleasurable.​

Finally, you can explore fantasy.​ When it comes to solo playtime, a lot of people find it incredibly pleasurable to fantasize.​ It could be about that hot neighbour down the street, or about act that you’ve always wanted to try.​ The possibilities are almost endless, so what are you waiting for?

Now, it’s time to explore some new positions! Instead of lay flat on your back, why not consider a different positions? Doing it standing up, or even in the shower, can be a great way to spice up your solo activities.​ Not to mention, changing your perspective can often lead to new sensations and exciting new pleasures.​

Plus, if you’re ever feeling too uptight, why not add some props into the mix? Props can be a great way to add some variety and new sensations.​ They can come in the form of an old scarf, or even massage oils and body Lotions.​ Anything that you’re comfortable with and that gets you in the mood can be a perfect addition.​

And that’s not all – there are lots of fun new positions and tools out there that can take your solo playtime to the next level.​ Restraints, bondage items, anal lubes, and even pleasure rings can all be great addition if you’re feeling a bit adventurous.​

My advice? Experiment and find out what works best for you.​ Don’t be afraid to try something new – it can be the perfect way to explore and to broaden your understanding of what your body likes.​

And that, my friend, is your beginner’s guide to male masturbation.​ I hope it’s been helpful, and I hope it’s made you a little bit more confident in exploring solo playtime.​ All the best in your solo journey!