Hey, I just wanted to talk to you about male masturbation. I know it’s a pretty awkward topic to broach, so I’m glad you’re here to listen. Firstly, let me start off by saying, don’t be embarrassed – it’s totally natural and it’s nothing to be ashamed of!
Masturbation can be a safe and pleasurable way to explore your sexuality and boost your intimate self-confidence. And, as you’d expect, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Everyone is a little bit different, so what works for one person may not work for everyone. But this is the perfect place to start.
Let’s begin then: Make sure that you’re in the right frame of mind. If you’re comfortable and relaxed, it will be easier to explore the sensations that come with solo playtime. If you’re feeling tensed, it may be tough to feel aroused. So putting yourself in the right frame of mind is key.
Next up, don’t rush it. Take your time, and give yourself permission to explore. Everyone responds differently to touch, so take the time to explore different feelings. Spend some time on your external areas like your nipples, the areas around your genitals, and your inner thighs. This is a great way to build arousal and to get some practice in with different types of touch.
Now, it’s time to explore a little more. Start with your genital area. Here, you can explore with your hands, as well as sex dolls toys if you’re feeling adventurous. Start rubbing circles around your penis head, and gradually increase the pressure as you work up to the point of pleasure. If it feels too intense, don’t worry – just dial back a bit until you find something that feels pleasurable.
Then, as your arousal spikes, it’s time to crank it up even more. For some, this means smiling into your hand while you continue to rub circles around your penis head. If you need too, grab a pillow and scream into it as you thrust your hips while rubbing your shaft. It’s all about exploring, and discovering new ways to please yourself.
Oh, and don’t forget lube! If your palm isn’t enough, grab some water-based lube to get the right amount of friction. It makes a huge difference when it comes to pleasure.
And that’s it – an easy guide to solo playtime. Now, it’s important to try different things and to find out what works best for you. After all, don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone from time to time – it’s a great way to make your solo sessions even better.
Alright, so now that you’re starting to feel more confident in solo playtime, let’s explore some more advanced tools that you can incorporate into your sessions. After all, there’s nothing wrong with taking your solo playtime to the next level!
One incredibly popular tool is a vibrator. Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes, and pressing them against your skin can take masturbation to whole new heights. You can use them to explore the sensitive areas around your genitals, or even your penis head. Start out slow and gradually increase the intensity to find that magical point of pleasure.
Another extremely popular tool is lubrication. Lubrication can be used to enhance the experience and make it much more pleasurable. Water-based lubrication is perfect if you’re going to use sex toys, as it won’t damage the material. Plus, it’s incredibly easy to clean off afterwards. And it doesn’t hurt that it’ll make the sensations even more pleasurable.
Finally, you can explore fantasy. When it comes to solo playtime, a lot of people find it incredibly pleasurable to fantasize. It could be about that hot neighbour down the street, or about act that you’ve always wanted to try. The possibilities are almost endless, so what are you waiting for?
Now, it’s time to explore some new positions! Instead of lay flat on your back, why not consider a different positions? Doing it standing up, or even in the shower, can be a great way to spice up your solo activities. Not to mention, changing your perspective can often lead to new sensations and exciting new pleasures.
Plus, if you’re ever feeling too uptight, why not add some props into the mix? Props can be a great way to add some variety and new sensations. They can come in the form of an old scarf, or even massage oils and body Lotions. Anything that you’re comfortable with and that gets you in the mood can be a perfect addition.
And that’s not all – there are lots of fun new positions and tools out there that can take your solo playtime to the next level. Restraints, bondage items, anal lubes, and even pleasure rings can all be great addition if you’re feeling a bit adventurous.
My advice? Experiment and find out what works best for you. Don’t be afraid to try something new – it can be the perfect way to explore and to broaden your understanding of what your body likes.
And that, my friend, is your beginner’s guide to male masturbation. I hope it’s been helpful, and I hope it’s made you a little bit more confident in exploring solo playtime. All the best in your solo journey!