I’m not your typical straight, black male when it comes to masturbation using a dildo. I think that if pushed, most guys would admit that it can be a pleasurable experience, and I definitely feel that way. But, to be honest, it’s not something I really thought about trying until just recently.
I remember the day I went into the sex-toy shop for the first time. I was beyond nervous, but I had some odd curiosity that had been building in me for a while. I was literally shaking as I stepped into the shop, and that’s when the realization hit: I don’t need to be ashamed of this. It’s just a dildo, after all!
Once I made my purchase it was time to try it out. I rushed home, a bit embarrassed with my purchase; but in the safety of my own bedroom, I let myself explore the new toy. At first, I was a little taken aback with the size, but it didn’t take me long to get used to it. As I began to use it, the pleasure began to take over. The combination of vibrations and gentle manual massage felt amazing and it was just what I needed to relieve the pent-up tension I was feeling!
For the first time ever, I felt like I was truly in control. The idea of this pleasure being all mine and not ‘for someone else’ was a liberating and incredibly satisfying feeling. It’s like I had been given a key to open the door to my own pleasure. This, vibrators in turn, brought me a bit closer to a new level of confidence that has completely changed the way I view my sexuality.
I couldn’t be more grateful to this life-altering experience. It has helped me to embrace my sexuality and feel empowered to explore further. It’s crazy to think that I ever felt afraid to try this.
Through trying the dildo, I can now experiment with other sex toys and even explore anal stimulation. Every time I use the dildo, I remember the sense of freedom and pleasure that I felt that day. It not only opened up new avenues of pleasure for me, but also helped to open my mind and accept more of myself and my body. I’m excited to continue the journey!
If the other straight, black men out there are nervous about using a dildo, I’d really encourage them to explore it. There’s something about using it that I can’t compare to anything else. It’s a magic combination of intense pleasure and newfound confidence. It’s like having a vibe-ectomy and it’s way more powerful than any other type of masturbation I’ve ever done.
Rather than feeling ashamed or weirded out, I now look forward to exploring my sexuality more and I’m grateful for my newfound confidence. The experience of using a dildo has opened up a whole new world of possibilities and makes me think that anything’s possible.
I no longer feel timid or embarrassed when trying something new. Trying the dildo gave me a ‘tease of the ancient’ in a way, and it’s one of the most priceless gifts I’ve ever been given. For that, I’m truly thankful.