I’m so excited about getting my first dildo! But before I get down to business, I wanted to make sure I was prepped and ready – because my first time using a dildo should be a memorable experience. Here’s what I did to make sure I was dildo-ready!
First things first, I read up on all the tips, tricks and info I could find. Googling was my best friend in this endeavor! When it comes to sex toys, it’s better to be safe than sorry, and I made sure to read up on lube compatibility, safety precautions and storage guidelines.
After I was well versed in all things dildo, I took time to think about what type of toy I wanted. There are so many options out there – size, shape, color – it can be tough to decide. But after doing a bit of research, I knew I wanted a realistic dildo that mimicked a real penis.
Then, I went shopping – a must for anyone gearing up for their first time! I headed to the store, browsing through the display cases and reading descriptions to find a dildo that fit my needs. After I found “the one,” I took the plunge and purchased it. I was so excited to become a proud dildo owner.
Once I was back at home, I made sure to wash it with mild soap and warm water before getting to action. Cleanliness is so important when it comes to sex toys! After that, I made sure I had the right lube – I needed something dual purpose that could be used for both vaginal and anal play. After double checking all the safety and sanitation tips I had read up on, I felt ready and eager to use my new toy!
After all of that prep work, I was ready to start exploring with my new dildo. I made sure to use it on my own first, exploring different angles and areas with it before I even began to think about using it with a partner.
The next step was to explore different types of movement with my dildo – thrusting, rocking, experimenting with different speeds and pressures on my clitoris. When I had the basics down, I started to get more creative, incorporating hands, other toys and even using it during partner sex.
To help get the most out of my new dildo, I tried changing the surface I used it on. Since dildos are firm but flexible, I found that I got more sensation when I used it on a softer surface like a pillow or blanket. I also explored adding vibration, trying out different speeds to find the perfect pleasure.
Once I had the basics down, I started getting creative with my new toy. I tried combining my dildo with a clitoral stimulator, experimenting with the different sensations. I also tried using it with a partner, exploring different ways of synchronizing the feeling with movement.
I found that adding a blindfold to my dildo use added a whole new level of pleasure. When I couldn’t see what was coming, my body was ready for every thrust, every rock and roll. I also noticed that playing music while using my dildo helped me to explore different movements and experiment with different rhythms.
Using a dildo can really open up a whole new world of pleasure. Any time I’m feeling like I want to switch things up in the bedroom, my dildo is my go-to. By preparing and researching before my first time, I was able to make sure my experience was enjoyable and memorable!