So for the longest time, I’ve been a white male crossdresser, and my body type is just right for it. But with the way I felt about my gender expression, I found myself feeling isolated at times. Lately, I’ve been exploring masturbation as a way to make peace with my body.
Before I started this journey, I was petrified of even entering this topic, much less actually engaging in it. I was embarrassed, scared, and worried my secret hobby might be revealed. But I’m here to tell you, it can be a liberating experience!
I started my exploration of masturbation with a lot of self-care. I took long hot baths, lighting scented candles and playing soothing music. I even bought myself some special lingerie and nice oils for massage. Doing simple things like this helped to make it a positive experience.
My first attempts weren’t perfect, but I kept at it. I focused my attention to all the pleasurable sensations I was experiencing. At times, I imagined myself dressed to the nines in some silky fuchsia dress from the 5000s—and how beautiful and powerful I looked.
The act of cross-dressing while I masturbated helped me to make peace with my body. It was almost like I was creating a secret language with my touch, like a form of communication between me and my body. This made me realise I have the power to change how I feel in the moment.
I also started exploring different positions when I was alone, and I found out that lying on my back, with my legs spread a little bit wider really gets my blood going. I made direct contact with my clitoris and simulated all sorts of nudging and prodding!
Since I’ve been exploring new masturbation techniques regularly I’m now able to be more mindful of all the sensations it brings. I feel much more liberated and I still reached out to my most female side while crossdressing. Now I’m confident that I can enjoy myself and not worry about what other people may think.
Nowadays, when I’m in a rut I make it a point to take some time to relax and explore my body. Sometimes I even put on my favourite dress and lipstick for a nice out-of-the-ordinary experience. It’s become much easier to discover ways to express myself and make my body feel amazing.
I’ve also exchanged a few bits of knowledge with other cross-dressers, swapping tips and tricks for dildos finding the right kind of lingerie and makeup foundation to match our skin type. We all want to look our best when we embark on our solo journeys!
At the same time, it’s important to remember that not all crossdressers are ready to take part in these kind of activities. Everyone can make their own choices and I’m just sharing my experience, so that others might find something that brings them pleasure and peace.
It’s taken a lot of courage to get to this point, but I’m so glad I did. Masturbation as a crossdresser has become one of the most positive experiences of my life! I have tried various methods of exploring and experimenting with different clothes, wigs, Penis Rings shoes, and other props. It’s been an incredibly empowering experience.
I’m still growing in this journey, and it’s all about experimenting and finding what works for me. For some cross-dressers, masturbation might bring pleasure, for others it might not, either way it’s all about personal choice. I’m so thankful that I’ve found a way of exploring and expressing myself through this activity.